Rediscovering Your Confidence After 35: Embrace Your True Self

As we grow older, society often places pressure on us to conform, to shrink into expectations of what we should look like, feel like, or do. But the truth is, the most powerful version of ourselves is the one that’s unapologetically authentic. For women over 35, it’s time to rediscover your confidence and embrace the true essence of who you are.

At Camellia Jade, I believe that confidence doesn’t have to fade with age; in fact, it can grow. Confidence is about reclaiming your space, showing up as the real you, and celebrating all that makes you unique. It’s about knowing that you deserve to feel seen, heard, and celebrated.

So, how do you rediscover your confidence after 35?

1. Embrace Your Style

   Style is an expression of who you are. When you wear clothing that aligns with your personality, body shape, and values, it becomes a powerful tool for self-confidence. Whether it’s updating your wardrobe or taking a chance on a bold new look, style is a way to show the world who you are, unapologetically. At Camellia Jade, I specialize in helping women over 35 discover a personal style that radiates confidence, inner strength, and beauty.

2. Shift Your Mindset

   Confidence isn’t just about how you look – it’s about how you feel. Cultivating a mindset of self-love and self-compassion is key to building lasting confidence. Through my empowering workshops, we dive into techniques to break free from limiting beliefs, celebrate your successes, and step into your power.

3. Celebrate Your Journey

   Life after 35 brings so much to celebrate. You’ve accumulated wisdom, experience, and a unique perspective. Let’s honor that! Whether it’s through public speaking workshops or simply spending time reflecting on your achievements, it’s time to honor the woman you’ve become.

   
   

Remember: Confidence isn’t a destination, it’s a journey. And it’s a journey that’s worth taking, especially after 35. Whether you’re looking to revamp your wardrobe or reignite your self-love practice, I’m here to help you every step of the way.

If you’re ready to step into the most confident version of yourself, let’s work together! Schedule a consultation today.

From Self-Doubt to Self-Love: Transformative Steps to Embrace Your Worth

Turning Self-Doubt Into Self-Love: A Journey to Embrace Your Worth

Hey, beautiful!

I know what it feels like to doubt yourself. To second-guess your abilities, your worth, your dreams. It’s something we all go through, no matter how confident we seem on the outside. But here’s the thing — self-doubt doesn’t have to define you. You can take those moments of uncertainty and turn them into steps toward self-love.

Here are a few simple, transformative steps that helped me shift from self-doubt to self-love — and I know they can help you too:

1. Practice Kindness Toward YourselfOften, we’re our own worst critics. But what if we treated ourselves with the same kindness we give others? Start by talking to yourself with compassion. When a negative thought pops up, counter it with a loving one. Remind yourself that you are worthy, just as you are.

2. Set Healthy BoundariesSelf-love means knowing when to say “no.” It’s about protecting your energy and making space for what truly serves you. Boundaries are not selfish; they’re a way to show love and respect for yourself. Start small and practice saying no to things that drain you, and yes to what lifts you up.

3. Celebrate Your Wins, Big and SmallIt’s easy to focus on what we’re lacking or what we haven’t accomplished yet. But real self-love comes from celebrating every little victory, whether it’s making it through a tough day or accomplishing a big goal. Be proud of yourself for how far you’ve come!

4. Surround Yourself with PositivityYour environment plays a huge role in your self-worth. Be mindful of the people and content you surround yourself with. Fill your space with things that inspire you and people who support your growth.

5. Practice GratitudeOne of the best ways to embrace your worth is to shift your focus to what you’re grateful for. Take a few moments each day to write down things you’re thankful for — even the small things. Gratitude helps remind us that we are deserving of all the good things coming our way.

Self-love is a journey, not a destination. But with these steps, you’ll start seeing yourself in a whole new light — one that’s full of confidence, worth, and beauty.

Remember, you are enough, just as you are. You are worthy of all the love and success you desire.

Embracing Vulnerability: The Power of Being Real

Vulnerability: The Key to True Strength

Hey there, beautiful souls!

I want to talk about something that is often misunderstood: vulnerability. It’s something we often shy away from because it feels like weakness, but what if I told you that vulnerability is actually a superpower? It’s what connects us, heals us, and opens up the doors to deeper, more authentic relationships — with others and with ourselves.

We live in a world that tells us to be strong, tough, and perfect, but the truth is, the most powerful women are the ones who allow themselves to be real. When we embrace vulnerability, we show the world our true selves, imperfections and all. And that’s where the magic happens.

Vulnerability is about letting go of the fear of judgment and simply being authentically you. It’s about saying, “I am enough, just as I am.” Whether you’re struggling with self-doubt, insecurities, or fear of rejection, embracing vulnerability allows you to take the first step toward real confidence.

I’ve learned this on my own journey — that it’s okay to not have it all together. That true strength lies not in perfection, but in the courage to be real, to ask for help, and to show up as you are.

So, here’s my challenge to you: today, let yourself be vulnerable. Open up to a friend, share a piece of your story, or simply say, "I'm not okay" when you need to. Letting the walls down and showing your true self is the first step toward building true confidence.

Remember, vulnerability doesn’t make you weak — it makes you powerfully human.